and then he started talking about going to New York and other places trying to travel drop names... he's a Salesman I guess best as I can tell...
I would inquire about his parents but he wouldn't answer and his sister but he wouldn't answer he sent a picture of him and his wife, who's Canadian, and their two kids two Boys ,and yet I got the feeling and I started to wonder he was actually doing this travel or if he was pretending to travel
...because he would say he is in New York ...I'd say send a picture but he wouldn't send a picture and then he'd say he's in Kansas and I said send a picture but he wouldn't send a picture and then he'd say I'm going to the Detroit Pistons game etcetera etcetera but never any pictures
Began to wonder and realize that he was trying to compete with me thinking that I was some sort of world traveler that he had to match up with but it didn't feel authentic
...and I don't want to compete with anybody and he's not a peer of mine because we have different lives for many years not similar in any way because I stayed in education then Ministry..
he dropped out of school basically he went to Bible college for a while but that was the extent of it and now as best as I can tell he's just been doing sales for many years and I wondered if he is lacking entire credibility and truth and what he's saying about traveling
it just felt odd but most of all I realized he's not a peer anymore we don't have anything in common as adults
he's married with kids I'm single he's not much of a religious person anymore if he ever was although he did come across for a while as being so ...
whereas I am totally devoted to being an Evangelical Christian and the list goes on so I finally realized I needed to unfriend him on LinkedIn because it felt like it was a false friendship no longer a real camaraderie if it ever was for that matter so I pray for DJ what else can I do but I don't think we can be friends