In Grand Rapids where the cold winds blow,
HOW's DAVE DEJONG NOW
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Tuesday, August 13, 2024
THERE was a man named DJ
Thursday, November 18, 2021
You must accept the responsibilities that are yours.
Don’t compare yourself with others. Just look at your own work to see if you have done anything to be proud of.
Saturday, April 10, 2021
RIP ❤ ✝ π "Conrad DeJong Obituary (1937 - 2020) - Grand Rapids, MI - "
Thursday, November 28, 2019
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Praise & Thanks to God:
Father- Son- Spirit
#ThanksgivingDay2019
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Thursday, May 9, 2019
Monday, March 18, 2019
Dj keep's saying we were bad kids, BUT I WENT ON TO GRADUATE WITH HONORS FROM COLLEGE & DO VERY GOOD
Thursday, February 21, 2019
STEVE BRINKS doesn't understand good ol' red-blooded American males
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ALSO PRAYERS FOR JULIE ANDERSON IN ST JOSEPH MICHIGAN
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
Sunday, February 17, 2019
WHAT REALLY WARMED MY HEART was the letter of repentance & apology from Sid Greidanus
Friday, February 15, 2019
Tuesday, February 12, 2019
Galatians 5: Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified their sinful self
Tuesday, February 7, 2017
I realized DJ was no longer a "peer"
and then he started talking about going to New York and other places trying to travel drop names... he's a Salesman I guess best as I can tell...
I would inquire about his parents but he wouldn't answer and his sister but he wouldn't answer he sent a picture of him and his wife, who's Canadian, and their two kids two Boys ,and yet I got the feeling and I started to wonder he was actually doing this travel or if he was pretending to travel
...because he would say he is in New York ...I'd say send a picture but he wouldn't send a picture and then he'd say he's in Kansas and I said send a picture but he wouldn't send a picture and then he'd say I'm going to the Detroit Pistons game etcetera etcetera but never any pictures
Began to wonder and realize that he was trying to compete with me thinking that I was some sort of world traveler that he had to match up with but it didn't feel authentic
...and I don't want to compete with anybody and he's not a peer of mine because we have different lives for many years not similar in any way because I stayed in education then Ministry..
he dropped out of school basically he went to Bible college for a while but that was the extent of it and now as best as I can tell he's just been doing sales for many years and I wondered if he is lacking entire credibility and truth and what he's saying about traveling
it just felt odd but most of all I realized he's not a peer anymore we don't have anything in common as adults
he's married with kids I'm single he's not much of a religious person anymore if he ever was although he did come across for a while as being so ...
whereas I am totally devoted to being an Evangelical Christian and the list goes on so I finally realized I needed to unfriend him on LinkedIn because it felt like it was a false friendship no longer a real camaraderie if it ever was for that matter so I pray for DJ what else can I do but I don't think we can be friends
Saturday, February 4, 2017
2/4/17 I realized DJ is no longer a "peer"
I went on to teaching , then Ministry and Seminary ,he went on to become a Salesman and I realize we were not peers anymore after he contacted me.... we didn't have the same experiences that kept us together as friends when we were younger
Not to say one is Superior or inferior just too far different to be real peers no longer common bonds where we sincerely have same experiential intersection
Saturday, January 14, 2017
Tuesday, January 10, 2017
Fwd: Danger of DJ reminiscing on being bad
Sunday, December 25, 2016
Friday, December 23, 2016
Wednesday, December 21, 2016
to DJ RE MT WHITNEY
Thursday, December 15, 2016
Wednesday, December 14, 2016
Monday, November 21, 2016
Thursday, September 8, 2016
GROWING UP IN GRAND RAPIDS WEST MICHIGAN, DAVE "DJ" DEJONG WAS A CLASSMATE & A "FRIEND" (i think) of MINE...
...but most recently I received an email from him saying that he attended our high school 30-year reunion (2015), which I knew nothing about...; why did he tell me about it ex-post-facto, and not beforehand so that I could plan to attend (if I had so desired)? Was he trying to "rub it in" and make me feel bad that I missed it? Not sure. He calls me "brother" ...as if he has an affection for me, but is it sincere?
...to understand my ambivalence you have to go back to the 1970's when I was still in 4th grade at alger elementary school, our local public school. The next year, starting 5th grade, my parents decided it was time for me to go to the Christian school, like all my other siblings. So I transferred over to Seymour Christian, only a few blocks away, but with a definitely different atmosphere, as one would expect and hope for in contrast to the public school...
...but it was NOT all a positive difference. IN fact, it may have been the very first day that I arrived at the new school and did not know a single person...I remember vaguely wandering out into the field during recess and all the boys (my male classmates) were playing baseball ...i think i arrived late and so wasn't included...so i was just watching from behind the backstop...
...not sure what sparked it, but it was DJ who did something to start a fight with me...that's something I remember definitely albeit not what started it.. I think he was picking on me for some reason.. so that was the "beginning" of our new "friendship"...
[and there's lots more to explain but I don't
have time right now...but given I am dedicating an entire blog to this topic , believe me, it's worth it {to me, to try to work this out in my mind]...
MEANWHILE, until I can get back to this narrative, I ask for you to pray for DAVE DJ DEJONG and his wife and family (he's married with children in GR)...and pray for me to try to reconcile the ambivalence I still have so many years later about our "relationship"...; hear my prayer: Father-Son-Spirit !


