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Tuesday, August 13, 2024

THERE was a man named DJ

 In Grand Rapids where the cold winds blow,

Lived Dave Dejong, a mixed bag of woe,
A tangled soul with a fierce, dark glow,
In his wild mind, the tempest would grow.

Cockiness dripped from every line,
He walked with pride, but beneath, malign,
A mean-spirited edge cut through his pride,
With racism hidden deep inside.

Jealousy’s poison coursed through his veins,
In every glance, a trace of his pains,
He envied those who lived beyond,
While in his hometown, he was fond.

Multiple faces, a chameleon’s flair,
One moment kind, the next in despair,
He danced through moods with shifting grace,
A stormy sea, no steady place.

Yet in his heart, a love so true,
For his mother Judy, strong and new,
Her warmth was a beacon in the storm,
A refuge where his soul could warm.

His father, a coach with a steady hand,
Guided teams with a passion grand,
Though Dave admired the baseball flair,
He never dared to leave or dare.

Bound by the town’s familiar cage,
His life unfolded like a raging page,
In jealousy and chaos, he remained,
A complex soul, forever strained.

Through the streets of Grand Rapids, he’d roam,
A storm of personalities, a life of foam,
With Judy’s love as his one true guide,
And a father’s legacy he could not hide.

Dave Dejong, a name of contradictions stark,
A tale of a man, lost in his mark,
In the shadows of his town’s embrace,
He lived his life, a wild, restless chase.

Thursday, November 18, 2021

Saturday, April 10, 2021

RIP ❤ ✝ πŸ™ "Conrad DeJong Obituary (1937 - 2020) - Grand Rapids, MI - "


"DeJong, Conrad 2/4/1937 - 12/16/2020 Grand Rapids DeJong, Conrad Ernest, aged 83, passed into the hands of the Lord on December 16, 2020 due to COVID. He will be remembered by his wife of 57 years, Judie, his 2 children, Patti (Tom) Sheckler & David (Linda) deJong and his 4 grandchildren, Clayton deJong (22), Owen deJong (20), Stella Sheckler (17) and Hans deJong (16). ..."

https://obits.mlive.com/obituaries/grandrapids/obituary.aspx?n=conrad-dejong&pid=197307578 

Thursday, November 28, 2019

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Monday, March 18, 2019

Dj keep's saying we were bad kids, BUT I WENT ON TO GRADUATE WITH HONORS FROM COLLEGE & DO VERY GOOD

Dj keep's saying we were bad kids, BUT I WENT ON TO GRADUATE WITH HONORS FROM COLLEGE & DO VERY GOOD ...I forgive u dave dejong

Thursday, February 21, 2019

STEVE BRINKS doesn't understand good ol' red-blooded American males

STEVE BRINKS doesn't understand good ol' red-blooded American males ...he grew  up out of touch with America.. the problem of being a "missionary kid".. and then suddenly parachuting into America when it's time for college. his parents tried to give the kids the best of everything as missionary kids..it was NOT a hardship contrary to popular misunderstandings of missionary life .. the Brinks were missionaries but gave their kids the best of everything, EXCEPT you cannot artificially make it happen the way they tried to do.. the only way to gain credibility as an "American boy" is to grow up in the American environment roughing it out with the other classmates..playing sports & doing the academics and sticking it out during the good, the bad, & the ugly. Missionary parents such as the Brinks tried to raise their kids with all the advantages but didn't give them the tough advantage of actually being American when they were kids. Nobody can teach it from abroad..you have to live it, to experience it.. until it is in your DNA.

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and prayers for PATTY DEJONG & THE parents Judy & Conrad (Connie) .. 

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ALSO PRAYERS FOR JULIE ANDERSON IN ST JOSEPH MICHIGAN


ALSO PRAYERS FOR JULIE ANDERSON IN ST JOSEPH MICHIGAN... MAY GOD be with her and all her family 
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Tuesday, February 19, 2019

we need a lot more REPENTANCE in the protestant church, including the Christian Reformed Church: I'm thinking of different people.. 

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Sunday, February 17, 2019

WHAT REALLY WARMED MY HEART was the letter of repentance & apology from Sid Greidanus

WHAT REALLY WARMED MY HEART was the letter of repentance & apology from Sid Greidanus ..thank u Sid and I accept your apology.. a lot of alpha males get "puffed up" when I come around..they see me as a threat..just because I'm a muscular male..but they don't get to know me..the real me..they just have a knee-jerk reaction to my presence.. ; it's also the Holy Spirit in me.. it's a threat to some.. ; so anyways, Sid Greidanus is many decades older than me, and he should know better, but some alpha males will live this way until the day they die..every interaction to them is a competition to "win" ..but it shouldn't be that way for fellow Christians.. and he's a seminary professor (or was)..anyways, hopefully he saw the error of his ways and it will help him be a better person in general. 

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Fwd: dj would like this film



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Friday, February 15, 2019

thank you DJ FOR apology...I also received a nice letter of repentence from Dr. Greenway...he was apologetic re the behavior of his son Scott..And of course I forgive..having grown up in the Reformed tradition in west Michigan I know how people think and how competitive sometimes they can be ..so many people have reached out to me from Christian High and Calvin College trying to be peacemakers, and I keep responding by saying, I love peace but we also have to be activists...not the "frozen chosen"..we must be trying to fulfill the Great Commission..that's what I'm all about and what the ministry is all about.. even when I was in high school and college it was all about evangelism for me..not that I was a so-called "perfect" kid..no I was NOT an altar boy.. , even when I was in Spain one of the students named Steve Vanderwey was also studying Spanish..I am thankful for the letter he recently sent saying he is starting to come around in terms of living the New Testament as well as the old..that was and is heartwarming..very nice to hear, especially because his twin bother (fraternal, not identical) went to seminary ...hope they keep the faith together.. Steve is SO TALL ..he could make a real mark if he so chooses to be a FAITH SHARER not just a conservative-sharer.. he was a real fan of my grandfather, but didn't know the whole story..you gotta know the whole story.. but the important thing is that he is repentant .for goodness sake he even came to southern Cal a few times.. but did not fully understand the context and culture..he knew a few "dutch connections" but it was insufficient for him to know the whole story,t he real story, or the back story, as they say. anyways, dave , i know there is Faith in you.. and you have a lot to offer in that regard..don't give it up..be a Faith Sharer...

By the way, Tim Mosman and Tom Brown also sent me letters of apology for what happend in Pasadena. Things are really going well in terms of reconciliation ...now I'm just waiting for a response from the Chevron owners on Colorado Avenue. Speaking of which I was UTTERLY SURPRISED when the owners of that 7-11 in the city of Orange came to me on their knees begging for my forgiveness..it was one of the best moments of my life..of course I forgive ! I just encouraged them to get anger management.. 

And around the same time I called Kev Slanderson and he literally started crying about how he had mistreated me when I came to them  of my own free will many years ago and helped them thru their bad times
...still they got divorced (maybe for the better) but I think maybe..or hope that Christ is moving in him for the better.. not just for show, but the real deal.. 

so good things are happening..I even heard from Barb who had wanted to get married and I was thinking about it but when I didn't immediately say yes (I'm the guy by the way, usually it's the other way around) she left town and went to Costa Rica.. and forgot all about me.., and she wanted to get married ? How could she forget about me so quick? I guess it was best that we didn't get married..too young anyways now that I look back on it. anyways, I think she's come to her senses now in Kalispell montana this many years later..she sends me a Christmas card every year..it's awesome.. 

so many good things..I'll continue this later 
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Tuesday, February 12, 2019

Galatians 5: Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified their sinful self

Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified their sinful self. They have given up their old selfish feelings and the evil things they wanted to do. 25 We get our new life from the Spirit, so we should follow the Spirit. "

https://www.bible.com/bible/406/GAL.5.ERV

Saturday, February 9, 2019

WE pray for DJ 2/9/19 

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Tuesday, February 7, 2017

I realized DJ was no longer a "peer"

Recently a childhood friend of mine from Grand Rapids Michigan made a LinkedIn friend request which I granted and we began to establish back and forth communication for a short while over the course of a few months and I sent some videos of what I was doing & talked about visiting Michigan where he still lives in the same neighborhood almost...

and then he started talking about going to New York and other places trying to travel drop names... he's a Salesman I guess best as I can tell...

I would inquire about his parents but he wouldn't answer and his sister but he wouldn't answer he sent a picture of him and his wife, who's Canadian, and their two kids two Boys ,and yet I got the feeling and I started to wonder he was actually doing this travel or if he was pretending to travel

...because he would say he is in New York ...I'd say send a picture but he wouldn't send a picture and then he'd say he's in Kansas and I said send a picture but he wouldn't send a picture and then he'd say I'm going to the Detroit Pistons game etcetera etcetera but never any pictures


Began to wonder and realize that he was trying to compete with me thinking that I was some sort of world traveler that he had to match up with but it didn't feel authentic

...and I don't want to compete with anybody and he's not a peer of mine because we have different lives for many years not similar in any way because I stayed in education then Ministry..

he dropped out of school basically he went to Bible college for a while but that was the extent of it and now as best as I can tell he's just been doing sales for many years and I wondered if he is lacking entire credibility and truth and what he's saying about traveling

it just felt odd but most of all I realized he's not a peer anymore we don't have anything in common as adults

he's married with kids I'm single he's not much of a religious person anymore if he ever was although he did come across for a while as being so ...

whereas I am totally devoted to being an Evangelical Christian and the list goes on so I finally realized I needed to unfriend him on LinkedIn because it felt like it was a false friendship no longer a real camaraderie if it ever was for that matter so I pray for DJ what else can I do but I don't think we can be friends

Saturday, February 4, 2017

2/4/17 I realized DJ is no longer a "peer"

Elaborate : DJ was a high school classmate ,also Junior High and Elementary,& Little League baseball...etc, ...we grew up together, sort of ,as kids but we were on a different track... I went on to Calvin College, he went on to RBC...

I went on to teaching , then Ministry and Seminary ,he went on to become a Salesman and I realize we were not peers anymore after he contacted me.... we didn't have the same experiences that kept us together as friends when we were younger

Not to say one is Superior or inferior just too far different to be real peers no longer common bonds where we sincerely have same experiential intersection

Tuesday, January 10, 2017

Fwd: Danger of DJ reminiscing on being bad


that was THEN, DJ, this is NOW ! YOU were a kid, you learned, you grew, ( we all learned, we all grew) and we moved on to ADULTHOOD and good Christian citizenship !

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

to DJ RE MT WHITNEY

glad you're back . any pictures of the statute of liberty? I went out there once. But I usually like to drive there. Anyways, I'm glad you made it safe and sound. so you have been to Jackson (got any cool pics?)  Most grand rapids people i know (or knew) rarely would leave GR or michigan. Not you eh? Your wife is Canadian, isn't she ? does she say "eh" ? And I've been praying for you and your kids, my friend. Seriously. I really do pray and believe in the power of prayer. Speaking of jackson hole, have you heard of Mt Whitney? It's the highest point in the USA, and actually not that far from Los Angeles. Many years ago when I still had Lola (my golden retriever, I"m not sure if you ever saw her, I got her as a puppy around 1994 in grand rapids and she was with me for fourteen golden years ! incredible dog). ...well around 2007 I hiked to the top of this peak mid-summer. It does not require climbing gear, but there IS snow up there even mid-summer. You do not have to be an expert hiker to make it, but it does require perseverance. Most people camp halfway and make it a 2 day hike. I decided I would hike all night instead, and arrive at sunrise. However, I lost the train around ten at night, and couldn't keep going so I had to stay in place without a tent most of the night (very cold!) . I used Lola for body warmth, and did jumping jacks every hour to keep my blood flowing. Finally, some hikers came up early in the morning with better flashlights and I kept going and made it later that day. Great experience. Some people actually run from the lowest point in the world (death valley) to the highest point Mt WHitney every year (im not that crazy). But you would like it if you ever decide to try it. But I recommend camping halfway (with a tent).  See my blog and a few pictures at the link below. Only a few more days until Christmas ! do you do all the Christmas things like getting a tree and putting lights on your house? Hope all is well. Stay in touch. 

Thursday, September 8, 2016

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GROWING UP IN GRAND RAPIDS WEST MICHIGAN, DAVE "DJ" DEJONG WAS A CLASSMATE & A "FRIEND" (i think) of MINE...

GROWING UP IN GRAND RAPIDS WEST MICHIGAN, DAVE "DJ" DEJONG WAS A CLASSMATE & A "FRIEND" (i think) of MINE..., and yet so many years later he remains a mystery to me...making me still wonder , was he REALLY a friend, or was something else going on? I want to believe he was a TRUE friend, but sometimes I get an uneasy feeling that I've been "played" by him...or "duped" or "used" ...nothing that I can put my finger definitely on, but...

...but most recently I received an email from him saying that he attended our high school 30-year reunion (2015), which I knew nothing about...; why did he tell me about it ex-post-facto, and not beforehand so that I could plan to attend (if I had so desired)? Was he trying to "rub it in" and make me feel bad that I missed it? Not sure. He calls me "brother" ...as if he has an affection for me, but is it sincere? 

...to understand my ambivalence you have to go back to the 1970's when I was still in 4th grade at alger elementary school, our local public school. The next year, starting 5th grade, my parents decided it was time for me to go to the Christian school, like all my other siblings. So I transferred over to Seymour Christian, only a few blocks away, but with a definitely different atmosphere, as one would expect and hope for in contrast to the public school...

...but it was NOT all a positive difference. IN fact, it may have been the very first day that I arrived at the new school and did not know a single person...I remember vaguely wandering out into the field during recess and all the boys (my male classmates) were playing baseball ...i think i arrived late and so wasn't included...so  i was just watching from behind the backstop...

...not sure what sparked it, but it was DJ who did something to start a fight with me...that's something I remember definitely albeit not what started it.. I think he was picking on me for some reason.. so that was the "beginning" of our new "friendship"...

[and there's lots more to explain but I don't 
have time right now...but given I am dedicating an entire blog to this topic , believe me, it's worth it {to me, to try to work this out in my mind]...

MEANWHILE, until I can get back to this narrative, I ask for you to pray for DAVE DJ DEJONG and his wife and family (he's married with children in GR)...and pray for me to try to reconcile the ambivalence I still have so many years later about our "relationship"...; hear my prayer: Father-Son-Spirit !